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City gets first gay festival


WORCESTER is to get its first ever Gay Pride festival.

The Worcester Pride event on Pitchcroft is coming to the city in June 2010 with organisers hoping thousands will visit, bringing a massive boost to trade, culture and tourism.

Lee Winters, event manager and member of organisers Worcester Pride Forum, said: “It is going to be electric.

“It is very exciting, it is definitely going to happen and everybody is invited.”

The city is currently more famous for its mediaeval cathedral, historic buildings and its part in the Battle of Worcester but Mr Winters is hoping the event will highlight the city’s contemporary culture.

The festival on Saturday, June 26, will be split into daytime and evening events with the overall message on bringing people from all communities together.

On Pitchcroft, there will be food market stalls, dance and beer tents, family activities, chill out tents and fashion show with a sound stage as the centrepoint for much of the entertainment.

In the evening, the focus will be on the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transsexual (LGBT) community with club-owners and promoters being contacted to support the festival in pubs and bars around the city, as events continue at the racecourse.

Organisers are staying tight-lipped but confirmed support from at least two celebrities who will perform at the event.

It is estimated there are more than 5,500 people in the city’s LGBT community alone, with organisers certain they can attract thousands more.

“We want to break down the barriers of gay and gay-friendly pubs and other clubs in the city,” said Mr Winters.

“This is a completely free and inclusive event, you can be gay, straight, disabled or from an ethnic community. Everybody is welcome.”

The huge task of organising the city’s first pride festival means backers want to hear from local traders, suppliers and residents keen to help out or run a trade stand.

“We want to support local traders and, where possible, source equipment from the county,” said Mr Winters.

A series of fund-raisers is also planned between now and the summer, with the first at the Edgar Suite Bowl Extreme on Friday, November 27, with live music, compere, an adult quiz and other entertainment.

Any profit made from the event will go to cancer charities, including Worcestershire Breast Cancer Unit Campaign, which is supported by your Worcester News, and the Worcester Aids Foundation.

For more information and updates, log on to the website at worcesterpride.co.uk, e-mail info@worcesterpride.co.uk or check the Twitter and Facebook sites.


Your Say Your Worcester

Sir Smeg, Worcester says...
12:26pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Why do minorities insist on shouting their 'difference from the norm' at every opportunity?
I don't go around telling everyone I see that I'm straight/white/C of E/British what-have-you. Some citizens consider these minority views quite offensive and disturbing. If you are, or want to be different, I say 'go ahead' but I don't necessarily want to hear about it thank you very much.

MrStJohns, St Johns Worcester says...
12:44pm Tue 10 Nov 09

I think it may just be a advert for an upcoming event (which sounds great), and if read through, mentions it is inclusive of anyone who would wish to attend. I think you may have been reading to much sensationalism in the daily mail sir smeg.

Stevio10, says...
12:46pm Tue 10 Nov 09

If you don't want to "hear about" what's going on in your city... may I suggest you avoid reading the local news?

Or are you suggesting that the WN does not cover events that people in the city may find interesting and instead simply report items that interest you?

molecat, worcester says...
12:56pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Excellent idea...Worcester has a terrible litter problem, if we get a few thousand gay men into town they're bound to start tidying the place up!
;-)

Vigornian, Worcester says...
1:06pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Sir Smeg wrote:
Why do minorities insist on shouting their 'difference from the norm' at every opportunity?
I don't go around telling everyone I see that I'm straight/white/C of E/British what-have-you. Some citizens consider these minority views quite offensive and disturbing. If you are, or want to be different, I say 'go ahead' but I don't necessarily want to hear about it thank you very much.
Difference from the norm! And I assume Sir Smeg is normal? Chances are someone you know is gay, be it a relative, someone you work with, or a close friend.

You are bound to say that 5,500 people is a minority but this is probably comparable to the number that attend the beer festival on Pitchcroft every year. Should the promotion of that event be kept quiet too?

Georgie Dragon, St John's says...
1:26pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Why does the so-called, and self-promoted "gay community" think that there is a barrier between gay and straight people?

The reason is that gay people, in general, prefer to mix with their own kind. I frequent many pubs within the City of Worcester (The Brewery Tap NOT being one of them) and the majority of people know that I am gay - I’ve never had a single problem from anyone because of it. Probably because I don't see myself as being different to them and I certainly don’t claim that I am from a "community" from which they would be excluded.

People who plan these pointless, ego-boosting events deserve to be a victim of the non-existent homophobia that they claim is prevalent in this country.

Perhaps instead of poncing about on Worcester Racecourse, the "gay community" might consider not patronising the rest of us once in a while by branding these events as "gay friendly".

Worcester City FC is gay friendly
Worcestershire CCC is gay friendly
Worcester Racecourse is gay friendly
Sixways is gay friendly
The Bell, The Plough, The Dragon, The Cricketers, The Postal Order, The 5 Bookies in the City Centre, The entire City is gay-friendly.

But maybe that's because I don't make a fuss about it.

disbelief, wr says...
2:20pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Ooooooooo get you....!!!

Vigornian, Worcester says...
2:26pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Immature comments but expected.

chris peacockpeacock, yealmpton says...
2:35pm Tue 10 Nov 09

I'm as gay as the day is long but like Georgie Dragon i don't feel the need to mince around banging on about 'gay issues' and doing the YMCA dance at 4 o'clock on a Wednesday morning. I hope they have a decent night but think gay should be something you are not something you do. Gays.

Vigornian, Worcester says...
2:52pm Tue 10 Nov 09

It's not compulsory to attend. I won't be as its just not my thing. The gay scene has never really been my cup of tea. But going on the popularity of pride events across the country, it will no doubt prove popular with others.

I've never been political about my sexuality, and I never advertise the fact that I am gay, because there is just no need to. But when it comes to some of the comments on here, it just goes to highlight the "small city mentality" that is and will forever be prevalent in Worcester.

ps I've only ever done the YMCA dance at a heterosexual wedding ... go figure that one out!

MrStJohns, St Johns Worcester says...
3:04pm Tue 10 Nov 09

To be honest vigornian, the only comment that is daft in its entirety is from sir smeg, from the name I would think there is a hint of internet troll going on. So I don’t think Worcester has a small minded attitude at all it seems quite the opposite from reading the comments, which are 99% in support of such an event.

Vigornian, Worcester says...
3:07pm Tue 10 Nov 09

MrStJohns wrote:
To be honest vigornian, the only comment that is daft in its entirety is from sir smeg, from the name I would think there is a hint of internet troll going on. So I don’t think Worcester has a small minded attitude at all it seems quite the opposite from reading the comments, which are 99% in support of such an event.
"disbelief", "molecat" ???

MrStJohns, St Johns Worcester says...
3:15pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Ah yes didn’t spot disbeliefs daft comment, I apologise, and yes I see that molecat was being somewhat stereo typical. But on the whole I think most people seem to be positive and not small minded, I just thought maybe making a comment such as Worcester has a small city mentality, was very similar to perhaps molecat suggesting gay people are normally tidy. Anyway don’t want to get into a tit for tat, just wanted to show support for the event and hope it does well and is a good day out for everyone that attends.

JBLM2008, Worcester says...
3:40pm Tue 10 Nov 09

oh for goodness sake calm down vigornian! no one's planning to burn anyone at the stake but again are entitled to their oppinions so don't get your leather chaps in a twist so often and chill out! either go or don't go i don't think the whole event will be a disaster if you choose to do the YMCA in your living room instead!
p.s it's nice to see you are deffence of those who are being mentioned because you share the same sexuality however when it comes to you having a go at other minority groups such as people who work for Local Government for example (which can be classed as a minority) you think that's ok??

Bliss, Stourport-on-Severn says...
4:29pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Georgie,
Is not making a fuss about your sexuality keeping quiet about it? Maybe if you were more open you would experiance some form of homophobia or have you got a case of internalised homophobia and find such openness such as Pride events a threat?
P.S. Have a chat with Sir Smeg to prove your point about Worcester being gay-friendley.

Karl_88, Worcester says...
4:29pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Sir Smeg
I would like to point out that in an age of modern science and atheism being CofE isn't exactly normal, and you yourself do not represent what should be considered the 'norm'. But I ask, do you not go to church gatherings and celebrate your faith? Should these events not be put into the local Newspaper? Should we only print articles that interest you?
This event is a great idea and gay pride is important to celebrate as it show's that homosexuals can hold their heads high in society despite people like you. People forget that the LGBT communtiy has only recently been given equal rights and it is important to continue to celebrate their right to be LGBT. If you don't want to hear about things like this then I suggest you live as a hermit. If you don't want to attend then don't, but do you really have to rant on about people who are differnet from you; a trait which is ultimately the reason why we have festivals like this in the first place?
This festival will also be good for business and will bring money into the local area. I think it's great that Worcester are keeping up with the 21st Century.

M@lvernite, UK says...
5:21pm Tue 10 Nov 09

"you can be gay, straight, disabled or from an ethnic community."

At best, if done tactfully this could prove an effective exercise in multicultural box-ticking.
At worst it could be seen as being in very poor taste; a certain episode of South Park featuring a parade to promote awareness of conjoined twin myslexia springs to mind.
Roll up, roll up!

Logik, Worcester says...
6:26pm Tue 10 Nov 09

All are welcome seemingly. I however would never consider attending such an event, wouldn't want to give anyone the wrong idea.

Hawlev, Droitwich says...
6:48pm Tue 10 Nov 09

I think its about time worcester had a gay pride, although not gay myself I have attended quite a few of these festivals and found them to be great fun, lets just hope that its not spoilt by small minded people.

TraceyLove, Ipswich says...
7:05pm Tue 10 Nov 09

WOW!
Concidering I actually left Worcester, as 'being gay' just wasn't acceptable, this is a massive thing...
Anyone who has been to a 'Pride Festival' beit in Manchester, Brighton or where ever will know that you don't don your village people costume and dance to the ymca all day. It's about culture and diversity, and its really nice to see that good old Worcester is finally catching up.
Well done...
I might even pop 'home'.

TraceyLove, Ipswich says...
7:13pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Oh and my the way...
If any 'straighties' decide to let there hair down and join the party, you are most welcome, as you would be at any festival.
I for one, promise not to be bigotted or narrow minded, but welcome you with open arms.
As any NORMAL human being would.
Cheers! Tx

Ted Elgar, Broadheath says...
7:17pm Tue 10 Nov 09

I think those carping on about 'minorities' or about 'political correctness' miss the point; it's someone having a PARTY; remember them you boring shower? Oh yeah and making a bit of business in the pubs and restaurants.. What could be more Conservative? If you are Bully Beef I am a Frenchman.

Karl_88, Worcester says...
7:41pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Ted Elgar please don't stereotype. I mentioned business and I'm not conservative I'm gay and liberal. The fact is these sorts of events do bring tourists in, and Worcester really needs it.
And Logik just because you attend the avent it doesn't mean that you look like you're gay. Just like attending a food fair doesn't mean you're fat

lotusfaery, Worcester says...
7:48pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Horray for Worcester finally arriving in the 21st century! I will definitely be going and am not LGBT. It is a celebration of human rights, of human expression and freedom of speech. It was not that long ago that people were sent to prision just because they were attracted to people of the same sex, or both sexes, look at Oscar Wilde for instance. This is a celebration of that right to express! Okay, so I understand people have differing opinions, and it is their right to voice this opinion whether or not you or I agree with them. But if you don't want to hear or see, don't look, don't listen and don't go. Simple! This IS a party and I'm sure will be a fun one at that, no matter who you fancy, what you believe in, where your from or what the results on your equal opps form shows. And finally, here here Karl-88! Very well said!

Ted Elgar, Broadheath says...
7:52pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Karl_88
I wasn't stereotyping and I meant Conservative with a big 'C' not conservative with an attitude problem.. In the way that one can be liberal and an entrepreneur.

molecat, worcester says...
7:57pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Vigornian wrote:
MrStJohns wrote: To be honest vigornian, the only comment that is daft in its entirety is from sir smeg, from the name I would think there is a hint of internet troll going on. So I don’t think Worcester has a small minded attitude at all it seems quite the opposite from reading the comments, which are 99% in support of such an event.
"disbelief", "molecat" ???
Vigornian, I'll make a joke about it if I want to - but please please don't think I'm one of the small minded contingent - I'm absolutely 100% in favour of this. I don't think Brighton is in much danger of losing all all of its pink pound revenue to Worcester though, but anything that adds a bit more colour to the dreadfully mediocre cultural calendar here is no bad thing. Sadly though it'll probably end up being a few over enthusiastic recently "out" gay men who feel the need to out do each other by being as camp as possible, rather than a great party to celebrate people's diversity. A bit more la-di-da than Mardi Gras you could say!! ;-)

lotusfaery, Worcester says...
8:06pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Oh yes, by the way @ Logik ... who cares what other people think? If the only thing stopping you attending such events is the worry you may be perceived as gay, then that's just daft. This is an event for anyone, as are other pride events and gay bars! So people from all walks of life will be there. And if someone thinks you are gay, so what? You might never see them again and its none of that persons business who you do or don't fancy. This reminds me of being at school when you wouldn't walk in a certain shop, or take your PE kit in a certain carrier bag in fear of people getting 'the wrong' idea. Do what you want to do, you're a grown up now! You might just have a fab time!

raq, fernhill heath says...
8:23pm Tue 10 Nov 09

The event in June sounds great, and what the previous posts have ignored is that any profits raised will go to really worthwhile charities. Good luck to the event organisers. Whilst not LGBT myself, I think live and let live, and it sounds like a fantastic party!
P.S. the posts above have made me laugh out loud, after a very long day at work!

Georgie Dragon, St John's says...
8:44pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Bliss wrote:
Georgie, Is not making a fuss about your sexuality keeping quiet about it? Maybe if you were more open you would experiance some form of homophobia or have you got a case of internalised homophobia and find such openness such as Pride events a threat? P.S. Have a chat with Sir Smeg to prove your point about Worcester being gay-friendley.
I am quite open about it thank you. I simply tell my friends, family and those whose buisness it is about my sexuality and not the entire City. I think that the reason that I don't see any homophobia is that, unlike a lot of gay people, I can see the humour when someone uses terms such as poof (the magic dragon of course) and bender in a comical way rather than squealing like a big girl about it that someone has said something nasty.
I'm quite sure that Sir Smeg would happily share a pint with me. Baccardi and coke for me please ;-)


Georgie Dragon, St John's says...
9:10pm Tue 10 Nov 09

And anyway, I shall be at the Non-League pride event in Warrington in June 2010 so ner.

Logik, Worcester says...
9:15pm Tue 10 Nov 09

lotusfaery, Worcester says...
8:06pm Tue 10 Nov 09
Oh yes, by the way @ Logik ... who cares what other people think? If the only thing stopping you attending such events is the worry you may be perceived as gay, then that's just daft.
.
.
Gays cannot change the way they are and I accept that. On the other hand I can't change who I am and how I feel and equally, that should warrant the same respect. That doesn't make me daft Lotusfaery.

lotusfaery, Worcester says...
9:35pm Tue 10 Nov 09

Logik, I know and understand what you are saying. My use of the word daft was meant in the sense that as an adult, your post gives the impression you are worried of what others think of you or that you are worried people might get the wrong impression if you attend such an event (i.e. you think people will think you are gay). My thoughts were, that as adults, things like this shouldn't really matter. It was used in the context as 'daft' to worry what others think. No offence was intended. I am straight and couldn't care less of what other people think about me, whether that be about my sexuality, dress sense, taste in music, whatever. What I intended to convey was that you shouldn't be worried or care what other people think, especially if it stops you doing something.

pudniw_gib, Malvern says...
10:11pm Tue 10 Nov 09

I didn't fight in 3 world wars to be the only gay in the village..... etc etc

SpeakMyMind, Worcester City says...
10:21pm Tue 10 Nov 09

It is inclusion not exclusion that builds a community..’Sir Smeg’ does seem keen to stick his nose in the ground and ignore the fact that others could exist around him. As someone that has many gay friends I support this, but then I would also support it if it were for some other group of persons that does not get wide media coverage or acceptance. Homophobia still exists; bullying in schools still exists; closed minded parents still evict children who are gay. So long as “these” types of people exist, then this event is still required to educate them.
...
To Georgie, I address the fact that you may be gay and have no problems, most of my gay friends have no problems either, but I do know some who have horrendous problems still. There are people who do not walk around with a gay badge of office, and I am sure they don’t draw as much attention as those who are more openly so?
...
NO straight people have managed to pull a major event / carnival together in some years, so why complain when the gay community offer to entertain the city. Without the event Worcester would just be yet another little named city with a vacant slot in June on Pitchcroft; WITH this event there is something happening, entertaining, educational and open to everyone. Is there a downside?

Ted Elgar, Broadheath says...
11:06pm Tue 10 Nov 09

"On the other hand I can't change who I am and how I feel and equally, that should warrant the same respect."

- I for one love closet-homosexuals.

Daffyd dyffed, says...
11:24pm Tue 10 Nov 09

A free festival is a super idea, yes we dont need to bang on about, gay rights, we just want to be accepted into the community.

Georgie Dragon, St John's says...
12:34am Wed 11 Nov 09

Daffyd dyffed wrote:
A free festival is a super idea, yes we dont need to bang on about, gay rights, we just want to be accepted into the community.
WE BLOODY ARE!!!!!

I think people like you exclude yourself from the community do that you can whinge about it at a later date.

Georgie Dragon, St John's says...
12:46am Wed 11 Nov 09

SpeakMyMind wrote:
It is inclusion not exclusion that builds a community..’Sir Smeg’ does seem keen to stick his nose in the ground and ignore the fact that others could exist around him. As someone that has many gay friends I support this, but then I would also support it if it were for some other group of persons that does not get wide media coverage or acceptance. Homophobia still exists; bullying in schools still exists; closed minded parents still evict children who are gay. So long as “these” types of people exist, then this event is still required to educate them. ... To Georgie, I address the fact that you may be gay and have no problems, most of my gay friends have no problems either, but I do know some who have horrendous problems still. There are people who do not walk around with a gay badge of office, and I am sure they don’t draw as much attention as those who are more openly so? ... NO straight people have managed to pull a major event / carnival together in some years, so why complain when the gay community offer to entertain the city. Without the event Worcester would just be yet another little named city with a vacant slot in June on Pitchcroft; WITH this event there is something happening, entertaining, educational and open to everyone. Is there a downside?
Sorry, not sure how to only quote the middle bit....

I understand that there may well be a small minority of people who still have a problem with parents etc. but I just can't see how this sort of even helps to educate the very few homophobic people left in the country. From my (albeit limited) experience of these events, it would make their fear/hatrid even worse if anything!

At Worcester City FC on Saturday, there was an 'anti-racism' day. Again, I'm not sure that there is as much racism in this country as some people seem to think, but the message was much better put across by getting kids and parents into an environment that they enjoy and portraying the message to them in a far more subtle manner.

This event being labelled a "gay pride" event will bring out the queens and I'm afraid that's what will put me off. - adn that fact that it's called "pride" - but that's a different story.

worcester35, Stratford upon Avon says...
1:46am Wed 11 Nov 09

I think this is an excellent idea which hopefully brings this part of Middle England a step closer to the modern age. As someone who lived in Manchester for 33 years, where I was NEVER the victim of homophobia; and where it just doesn't matter what your sexuality is (because gay people are just a part of life - making no need for it to be an issue) - I have been made to feel extremely uncomfortable in Warwickshire/West Midlands since I arrived and was absolutely astonished at so many out-dated attitudes and have experienced circumstances ranging from intimidating stares, people being off hand, abrupt and rude through to full-on verbal abuse- just for being "me"! However, I feel slightly more at ease in Worcester than most other places in the area so I think this is a major step forward for Worcester and Worcestershire. I'm not surprised you're a step ahead of the likes of Coventry and Solihull/Leamington Spa etc; as the instances I mentioned never happen in the Worcester area.
Well done to the organisers of Pride for actually deciding to arrange this - there's nothing wrong with being seen as the vibrant part of an otherwise very homophobic region.
I hope that you may be able to achieve a similar situation to Manchester and Brighton where the whole community gets involved regardless of anything in celebration of the city being accepting and "modern" in outlook.
Due to my experiences I will have moved back to Manchester by the time this happens but I wish the organisers good luck and I hope you don't encounter too much of the old-school middle england attitudes along the way.
All the best x

P.S.

It's not about shouting about who we are or being treated more superior - it's about being treated as equals.


molecat, worcester says...
8:12am Wed 11 Nov 09

Please don't take this the wrong way anyone...but reading to the end of this thread, looking at the time of your postings, it does rather seem that the gay community tends to stay up much later than us heterosexuals...don'
t know what to make of that!! ;-)

JBLM2008, Worcester says...
8:42am Wed 11 Nov 09

I can completley understand the reasoning behind many wanting to educate those who are less open minded about this however those people who really are dead against gay people are no way gonna go to the event to get educated they will stay away because that's how they feel/believe. Alot of "straight" people have posted on here stating their sexuality which i find amusing that you're posting about an event organised and ran by gay people and described as being a gay pride festival and you seem in support so why feel the need to state ... i think this is great BUT i'm straight, not all gay people think "OH MY GOD THERE'S SOMEONE TALKING I'M GONNA GO FLIRT" i've been to quite a few places/events which have either been described as a gay night or gay club etc etc and always had a fab time and if i'm free in June 2010 which looking at my diary it looks pretty free i shall be going.

worcester35, Stratford upon Avon says...
10:59am Wed 11 Nov 09

molecat wrote:
Please don't take this the wrong way anyone...but reading to the end of this thread, looking at the time of your postings, it does rather seem that the gay community tends to stay up much later than us heterosexuals...don'

t know what to make of that!! ;-)
Make of it that due to horrendous middle england homophobia I cannot sleep, have considered suicide, am constantly looking over my shoulder when I'm out and feel as if I'm on a different planet .... it's not nice being treated like I have leprosy, constantly stared at, pointed at, smirked at, laughed at and being screamed at on trains and buses and at stations just because of who I am. The sad thing is though much of middle england thinks it's what you do "stare at and mock the different" - which in some ways makes me have pity and sorrow for the general culture and attitudes of the area and in other ways make me think that things are just a bit naive and childish in going against what is normal and modern. In other areas if you did this kind of thing, it would be the other way round and people would stare at the people being homophobic; etc and view them as very unusual. However, like I said, Worcester's marginally more comfortable than Coventry and Warwickshire; but youve a long, long, long way to go to be actually classed as accepting in the modern age. It isn't necessary to make a point of criticising LGBT people so that people will know you're straight - that just shows one of many forms of ignorance.

I'm sure there will STILL be homophobic viewpoints though even after reading how it affects people. I just don't get this region atall.

Karl_88, Worcester says...
2:42pm Wed 11 Nov 09

oh. ok

Karl_88, Worcester says...
2:48pm Wed 11 Nov 09

Thanks Hayley
Worcester35 please don't commit suicide, just move somewhere less homophobic. That's what I did, all though I never found Worcester itself to be that homophobic

CDH, Worcester says...
2:49pm Wed 11 Nov 09

If this was an "asian pride festival" would there be all this fuss

worcester35, Stratford upon Avon says...
3:57pm Wed 11 Nov 09

Karl_88 wrote:
Thanks Hayley
Worcester35 please don't commit suicide, just move somewhere less homophobic. That's what I did, all though I never found Worcester itself to be that homophobic
Karl_88 thanks for your concern; it's appreciated and made me feel a bit better.
When I save some more money I will be moving but like you said Worcester is the slightly better part of the area for attitudes;etc.

Thanks again :)

TraceyLove, Ipswich says...
4:39pm Wed 11 Nov 09

worcester35 wrote:
Karl_88 wrote: Thanks Hayley Worcester35 please don't commit suicide, just move somewhere less homophobic. That's what I did, all though I never found Worcester itself to be that homophobic
Karl_88 thanks for your concern; it's appreciated and made me feel a bit better. When I save some more money I will be moving but like you said Worcester is the slightly better part of the area for attitudes;etc. Thanks again :)
When I think how many people must have left Worcester, because of it's general narrow-mindedness, it makes me a little sad.
After all, that's why I left.

Ok... spread the word...
Not only is this going to be a Pride Festival, its going to be a reunion for everyone who left...

I just hope good ole Worcester is ready for us...!!!

Now, where are my Doc Martins and must book into the hairdresser to get a short back and sides.
Will leave business cards at home, and not do my eyebrows for at least a month!!!
After all, I'd hate to disappoint.... ;O) x

thompson9100, St Johns says...
9:09pm Wed 11 Nov 09

I think this is ace. After enjoying going clubbing in the gay quarter in Birmingham, and knowing a number of gay people, I fully welcome Gay Pride to Worcester. As someone who is disabled I would think this may go down a bit better than, say, 5000 disabled people trampsing through the City Centre, rolling over people's toes, speaking incoherently, wobbling around uncontrollably, and walking into everything and everyone!

Some people forget what minorities are - and I agree that Mr Smeg Head is certainly in a CofE minority here. Mind, he got it right with his name at least (go look it up on Google if you don't know what it means!). Think he is quite honestly a Smeg Head - and maybe that's also a minority group too. :)

SpeakMyMind, Worcester City says...
12:39am Thu 12 Nov 09

Open and out gay guys who are happy and acceptant of themselves and who they are, deal with homophobia much easier than those who struggle with it, or who are felt to be ashamed still? Getting embarrassed, shying away from comments of gay, puff, queer… when the response should be “yes” what about it? I don’t deny at all that some gay guy do bring it on themselves by staying in closets.

As for those who are anti-gay not going to the pride event, I am sure they won’t. But if this is an annual event, with 5000 to 10000 gay people in Worcester for a weekend once a year will bring about a stronger and more stabilised community in the Faithful city, and trends will change. This guy who hates queers can lock himself away in his home, or come out and join the rest of the twenty first century and stop being so bigoted

worcester35, Stratford upon Avon says...
10:34am Thu 12 Nov 09

SpeakMyMind wrote:
Open and out gay guys who are happy and acceptant of themselves and who they are, deal with homophobia much easier than those who struggle with it, or who are felt to be ashamed still? Getting embarrassed, shying away from comments of gay, puff, queer… when the response should be “yes” what about it? I don’t deny at all that some gay guy do bring it on themselves by staying in closets.

As for those who are anti-gay not going to the pride event, I am sure they won’t. But if this is an annual event, with 5000 to 10000 gay people in Worcester for a weekend once a year will bring about a stronger and more stabilised community in the Faithful city, and trends will change. This guy who hates queers can lock himself away in his home, or come out and join the rest of the twenty first century and stop being so bigoted
Just so you know Im not in the closet, and also not struggling with homosexuality, have never been "in denial" have accepted myself from the age 0f 12! Im happy with myself but its other narrow minded types who have a big problem.Also not ashamed or anything like that(why should I be); but coming to the west midlands from such a gay friendly place as Manchester is just horrendous- next youll be saying ethnic minorities should shrug off racism- actually Ive heard people in the west midlands say such!
Poof,queer etc ARE very offensive terms to use. But it seems that the middle england culture is a world away from other more forward thinking kinds of places- so, if minorities are treated in such an old school way then theyll then treat themselves and view themsleves in a completely different way wont they?

No more to say as its futile to make middle england see the modern way.

Georgie Dragon, St John's says...
2:34pm Thu 12 Nov 09

I don't think that poof and queer are offensive terms to use. They'm two of my favourite nicknames. If people stop calling me by those names so as not to offend the likes of yourself I'd be very disappointed in them.

I think you Mancs and other outsiders just don't get the Wuzdah/West Midlands sense of humour.

Hurricane Vicky, St Johns says...
4:15pm Thu 12 Nov 09

I'm thrilled that Worcester is embracing Gay Pride - it should be a blast. A lot of the comments are less inspiring though. I can't help but feel that people are missing the point.

Pride is not all about about trumpeting our sexual orientations from the rooftops, as many seem to think. After years of oppression, gay people in Britain are now (mostly) welcomed into the community. (I say mostly, because homophobia DOES still exist, in many forms - Sir Smeg's first comment being a case in point.) Gay Pride is a CELEBRATION of this. People like me no longer have to live in the closet, and we recognise and appreciate that fact. Gay people in other countries aren't so fortunate, so let's appreciate what we have here in the UK. What better way to celebrate than a big summer party where everyone is welcome?

I'm looking forward to it. I hope to see some of you there.

WorcesterMark, Warndon says...
12:29pm Fri 13 Nov 09

Personally I think it's this sort of thing that causes homephobia as people interptret it as attention seeking.

Olga, Worcester says...
2:32pm Fri 13 Nov 09

CDH, Worcester says...
2:49pm Wed 11 Nov 09

If this was an "asian pride festival" would there be all this fuss


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Shame this isn't "Asian Pride" festival ------------ at least there would be decent food at the event!!

Avante, Worcester says...
10:44am Mon 16 Nov 09

I took the family to Disney in florida a few years back, it seems our holiday corresponded with a Gay Pride event at disneyworld. Did it bother any of us? not at all, why should it. I didnt realise Georgie Dragon was gay when I first knew him, does knowing he's gay make any difference? No, he's still just the same scruffy git!

Georgie Dragon, St John's says...
12:55pm Mon 16 Nov 09

I wouldn't say anything that might be insulting, avante - would want to offend the scruffy gits across the county would we? ;-)

Avante, Worcester says...
2:36pm Mon 16 Nov 09

ooops sorry scruffy git!! I meant to say "scruffy four-eyed git" and ok, it takes one to know one!

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