I AM not a Christian but the way Christmas is celebrated in our culture has troubled my conscience for most of my adult life.

It is surely a good thing to observe and celebrate festivals and holidays, to take time out from busy lives to spend with family, friends and colleagues for relaxation, good company and a little harmless self-indulgence of food and drink.

Yet Christmas has for many people lost its meaning and become a financial struggle in pursuit of an unrealistic fantasy marketed by commercial vested interests.

This can put an intolerable burden on people whose lives are marred by loss and bereavement; separation from loved ones, loneliness, conflict, divorce and family break-up, poverty, ill-health, or any number of difficulties.

The principles of forgiveness and reconciliation, 'peace on earth, goodwill to all' and generosity are wholesome and positive. Yet something seems to go wrong in our attempt to put these into practice. Sometimes as individuals and as a society we stray into greed, indulgence and conspicuous consumption. We can end up feeling jaded and empty with financial and spiritual debts to be faced in January.

Around the world there are millions suffering due to famine, plague, pestilence, poverty, natural disasters, warfare and political, cultural and religiously-motivated violence and oppression.

Perhaps we can find a way to give something to them. There are many worthwhile humanitarian charitable ventures locally and globally. There could be someone you see every day in desperate need of a friendly word. Peace, love, happiness and prosperity to all the members of our extended human family at the end of this difficult year, irrespective of race, creed or culture.

DAVID POWELL, Albert Park Road, Malvern.