FROM the moment your loved one gets down on bended knee and asks you the question you've been waiting for, thoughts of walking down the aisle in a wedding dress will most likely flash through your mind.

After all, your wedding dress is going to be most important dress that you'll ever buy - and the one you want to be perfect, which makes picking a dress a bit of an ordeal.

Whether you choose to float in in a slinky satin and organza creation or a dreamy concoction of ruffles, lace and tulle, you'll be spoilt for choice with the vast array of available styles.

"Every bride wants to look beautiful on her special day, and we're seeing a return to the classic, traditional 1950s-style dress as worn by Grace Kelly and Audrey Hepburn,"says Peta Hunt, fashion director of You And Your Wedding.

"The vintage trend is still going strong, with lace, beading and satin, but industry experts surprised us with a resurgence of the fantasy dress, with layers, tulle and embroidery."

She adds: "More women are dreaming of the perfect fairy-tale wedding, full of romance, where they're swept off their feet by their Prince Charming and they want their dresses to reflect that."

It's important to work out how much you can spend on the dress.

" Budget is crucial - it's very tempting to go mad for all dresses and turn into Bride-zilla," Peta says.

"You'll need to do your research before you hit the shops. Flick through magazines and compile a folder of the dresses you like.

"Once you've decided to go dress shopping, give yourself time - you may not find it in one day. Wear pretty underwear and flat shoes, and bring a pair of heels. It can be a battle, so make sure you're in comfortable clothing."

Peta advises visiting a department store to get the best idea of different styles and ranges, but suggests: "Don't let yourself be influenced or pressured by store staff, as it'll be you walking down the aisle, not them.

"Also, your dress should reflect your personality, so make sure you don't get carried away and lose your sense of personal style."

A lot of mature women want to look modern and fashionable, and aim to bring their outfit up to date without looking silly or inappropriate, says Amanda Slader, chief fashion advisor at John Lewis.

Trousers are still big news, and skirts are back with many different shapes to choose from. But it's the accessories that'll make or break an outfit.

Bolero jackets are very popular and work well for older women as they disguise less than perfect arms.

Dress from Stevies Gowns of London. Stockists: Satin & Silk, Bridge St, Hereford, 01432 352858. Gatehouse Brides, Barbourne Road, Worcester. 01905 28287.

Cool in Tulle. Dress from Trousseau, First Floor, East Street, Hereford. 01432 350770.

Dress: Artemis from Alan Hannah collection. Stockists: ido, Hanley Swan, Worcestershire. 01684 310106

"Your wedding dress is going to be most important dress that you'll ever buy,"